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Many women are frustrated because they have a great date, but never get another call. Well at least they thought it was great. Little did they know that the guy knew half way through the date that he would never call this person back.
No matter how much a person tries to act like this does not hurt, it does. You can absolutely think a guy is great, but if you are making these mistakes, you are hurting your chances of ever seeing him again.
1. Sex on the first date. I know the other guys will hate me for this, but I have to tell the truth. Normally sex on the first date will mean that the guy is not really looking for a serious relationship with this person. Sorry ladies, that is just the way it is.
Please save the stories of Uncle Bill and Aunt Sue who had sex on the first date and have been together for years. This does happen, but it is like winning lottery. Good if it happens, but I would not put my life savings on it.
I do not care what they say, a man sees a woman differently when she has sex with him on the first date. He now knows that she is only going to good for at best a "friend with benefits" type of relationship. Oh and do not bother showing a potential boyfriend this article. Do you think a guy is going to admit this is the way we think???? Good luck.
2. Talking about a long-term commitment on the first date. It is just way too soon to go there. Most guys will smell the scent of desperation and run for the hills. This will probably be the last time you will hear from him.
Even if the guy starts talking long term, it is still too early. He maybe desperate and looking for some place to live or someone to control. If either person is saying that they have "found the one", this is a bad sign.
3. Talking past relationships. Sure we all want to share our experiences, but if this goes on too long on a first date, this is strike 3 and you are out of the dating game.
Some mention of the past is fine, but long drawn out conversations are a no-no. Either you still want to be with that person from the past or you are still bitter about the break up. Either way you are not ready for a relationship. Move on.
You can be a winner in the dating. Avoid making these strikes and you will find yourself hitting home run after home run. Then you will be taking home the prize. Happy Dating.
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